Now let me give you some facts that I know as far as this relationship is concerned:

This is a husband and father of more than fifteen years.  This brother has been there from day one, when it came to their child. The divorce is something his wife asked for after finding out that her husband has been having an affair with a woman in their neighborhood for more than ten years. This man is also a police officer.

Now he’s straightup missing in action. How the hell do you end your relationship with your child, your blood, your genetic DNA because the world you had with your wife is now over? His wife divorced his ass but his daughter never stopped being his daughter. She never stopped loving her Dad! She’s the one who’s crushed every time this fool breaks their "date". 

Am I the only man who can see the difference between problems and issues with the ex- wife and responsibility to children?

No woman or bitter history between two people should stand between a man and his child. Nothing!

Talk to me, people. Tell me what has to happen to get us all to put aside our petty bullshit so that we can support our children. I am tired of men complaining that the mother is a bitch, and she’s keeping him from his child, or some woman crying because she can’t get child support so the bastard ain’t gonna see his kid.

Stop the madness!

All of this shit can be worked through - legally in the court system or through mutual compromises. I’m always willing to be the middleman if the two parents involved can’t talk together. I challenge all of my readers and friends to offer the same support for their friends and families. Be the mediator. Intervene. Be unselfish for the sake of the children.

I want to talk to this fool. I want him to explain to me how anything else can be more important than the four or five days he has to spend with his seed. I’ll keep you all posted, and I want to hear your side if you’ve found yourself in the same predicament.

One other thing. When you do have visitation, it means you have to spend time with your kid. Not your girlfriend, not your mother and father, not the weekend day care center. I hope I ain’t wasting my words here. If we can do this one child at a time, one event at a time, maybe we can save a few kids some unnecessary drama. Let’s not make Guy’s "Why You Wanna Keep Me from My Child" a real life story. And if you ain’t seen that video, you missing some serious tear jerking shit.